There are many signs that your spouse is having an affair. Does he or she call you to tell you that they need to “stay late at work” or is going out with “the guys” (or “the girls”) tonight? These are signs that he or she is having an affair and you need to take action. Take a look at the content below and see if your situation matches any if them.
Change in daily routine.
Most couples have a daily routine that they go through. What they do in the morning, throughout the day, and at night. Also the times during the day that they talk on the phone, see each other, etc. Has your spouse’s routine changed? It is not very hard to notice when things are changing. Look carefully and see what is different.
Change in sex frequency.
You may be used to having sex a lot, or maybe a little. Whatever it is, your spouse’s sex habits will change if he or she is having an affair. Either more sex will be craved or very little will be wanted, either way the frequency will change and you should notice this within a week.
Privacy needed around their computer or phone.
Most people having an affair won’t usually talk on the phone, usually they will email or text instead to try keeping it on the down line. If you glance at your spouse’s phone, does he or she try hiding what is on there? Do they not read their email until you are out of the room? This is the most obvious signal, Any good couple will have no problem if the other partner wants to go through their messages.
Your spouse is out of the house more than usual.
Does your partner seem to be out of the house a lot more than they usually are? Do they say they are staying late at work or hanging out with friends late tonight? These are signs that they are with another man or woman and are having an affair. The thing that worries most people about their spouse being out is that they have no idea what they are doing.